When you first meet a girl for the first time, you might like her.
Then you start to think about how to text her. If you want to know how to text a girl you like, you are in the right spot.
The truth is that it’s not easy to come up with great texts to send to girls without sounding sleazy, dull, or just sexting her.
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Knowledge is power, and if you know how to text a girl you like, you will have an advantage over other guys, right?
It is where most guys get it wrong and what most women dislike.
Would you walk straight up to a stranger and ask her for sex right to her face?
If you would, I suggest you rethink your strategy since this won’t work. Not even pickup artists would do it this way!
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Most of us are just as hesitant about what to text her as we would be walking up to a gorgeous woman on the street and asking her for a date.
We would trip over the words, and everything that might come out of our mouths would be a lame Hi!
So, what can you do instead?
I will discuss how to text a girl in this article, but I can already reveal that you should not hit on her. You should HIT on her by text.
What to Text a Girl
When you text a girl, you must know what you should and should never text her.
If you want to learn this, I highly recommend reading the FAQ article I have written.
I will, however, give you a critical aspect of texting her:
Don’t be generic, be personal.
As I mentioned above, I will not suggest you hit on her but rather HIT her.
Okay, this acronym refers to the three parts that I have learned myself through dating a lot of women across the world, so this works for most women if done correctly:
Humour or Make Her Smile.
It is the golden rule in dating as well as the pickup arts.
If you make her smile, you are halfway through already. She will think of you as a “cute,” “adorable,” and “sweet” guy.
You should read that article if you want to know what to text a girl to make her smile.
Making fun of yourself is another way to prove that you are no threat to her, which will let her guard down.
It is the first of many defenses you must overcome if you have an intimate relationship with her.
Interest or Intrigue Her.
Make yourself become the attractive, mysterious man that she wants and desperately craves.
You can do this by allowing some of your personality and sending her text messages that appear to be “cut,” e.g., I don’t know if I told you that you are
Do you think she wants to know what you want to tell her? Of course, she does! It is, in fact, one of the easiest ways of getting a text back when you text a girl! It brings me to the last part of the formula.
Tease Her or Use Sarcasm.
That’s right!
Tease her in a fun way, like telling her I think you’re lovely except for this one thing. She wants to know this and wants you to say to her what that one thing is that bugs you about her. It is what you should answer her.
You can also use sarcasm to joke with her.
I know that in some cultures, sarcasm is a sign of friendship, but using sarcasm might work wonders if you want to ask her out on a date.
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What to Not Text, a Girl
You don’t want to text her boring stuff. You were being “nice,” like texting her. So, cutie, what are you doing tomorrow, love to buy you dinner or the opposite; being too aggressive won’t work either.
Another golden rule is not to suggest anything sexual.
You are texting, not sexting! It would help if you waited for that until you were in a relationship with one another.
Don’t try to send her ultimatums like: I feel like I am the only one working on this relationship, or I am not cool with you having so many guy friends.
The latter one tells her unconsciously: Oh! Oh! I’d better leave and change my phone number! He tries to control me.
You can learn more about what to not text to a girl if you read my article What NOT to Text a Girl.
