If you want to know the best ways to ask a girl out on a date, you need to read the entire article to get all my fifteen favorites.
Depending on your current situation, some will suit better for you than others.
I will start by listing the best ways to ask a girl out, and then I will discuss all fifteen ways before I end the article by revealing my favorite method.
Why are you hesitant? Continue to read the article below. 🙂
15 Ways to Ask Someone Out
Let me start by revealing the 15 ways to ask someone out before I discuss them in further detail.
The best ways to ask someone out through text or otherwise are:
- Pass a note/Send a DM.
- Call her.
- Buy tickets.
- Surprise her.
- Bring her coffee.
- Shout from the rooftops (or instead sing it).’
- Use the “dog trick.”
- Stay sober.
- Propose an irresistible date.
- Plan ahead.
- Keep it in perspective.
- Volunteer together.
- Buy her something.
- Write down your emotions.
- Make it happen.
There you have the best ways to ask someone out, according to my biased opinion.
As you will discover, I will sometimes discuss similar options as I walk you through the entire list before I reveal my favorite way to ask her out on a date.
So, without further ado, let’s start right away.
Pass a note/Send a DM on Social Media
It might sound old-fashioned to send her a written note, but it still works!
Passing a note to ask her out on a date is a tried and tested method to ask someone out on a date that still works.
Sending her a handwritten note also makes it feel more personal since women these days are more used to getting text messages and DMs on social media from men than an actual handwritten note.
Taking the time to write her a note in your handwriting tells her that you are genuine and someone ready to invest time to get to know her better.
If you can’t meet her physically, sending her a DM on social media still works.
Call her
Another old-fashioned way that still works if you want to ask her out on a date is to give her an actual phone call.
Hearing your voice will make her start forming an opinion of you and the all-important connection that every woman wants and looks for, no matter what relationship she wants with you.
It will help you create a first impression different from most other guys she is considering dating.
Buy tickets
If she has dropped some hints that she wants to attend a particular fair, event, or even sports event, make sure that you buy the tickets and then tell her that you have acquired them and ask her if she wants to go with you.
It is an excellent way to show a genuine interest in what she likes and cares for, and at the same time, you will get to know her.
She will appreciate your efforts.
Surprise her
All women love to be surprised once in a while, and you can choose how you want to surprise her.
It might be unexpectedly going out on a date or giving her a gift.
You can make it blossom early with flowers…
It is a bit old-fashioned, but it still works to give her flowers.
If you want a blossoming start on your new relationship that will hopefully make it bloom in the future, giving her flowers might be a great option.
Make sure that you know her favorite flowers and surprise her with them.
Or pepperoni her with pizza.
If you want to spice things up early in your relationship, you might want to give her something spicy to eat, like pepperoni on a pizza.
You can even write a message inside the pizza box for her.
Don’t overdo it, though, since she will think you are too eager to get her clothes off if you give her something too spicy.
If she hates pizza, try to send another takeout her way with a message from you.
Bring her a coffee
Giving a woman a cup of coffee, especially on a cold winter day, is another way to ask her out on a date.
Write the message to her on a cellophane cup, and ask her out on a date.
It’s fun, a bit different, and also shows that you care for her well-being since you don’t want her to freeze when it’s cold outside.
Of course, you can also give her a cup of coffee in the summer. 😉
Sing it and serenade your love for her
If you love to sing, you should serenade your love for her and ask her out on a date.
You can be a toning belt or a soprano; it doesn’t matter.
What matters is the idea and the effort you make to show your unique way of asking her out on a date.
Start working on your singing skills.
If she likes you, she will think it’s cute and say yes. If not for anything other than to stop you from singing further and save her hearing. 🙂
Have you ever heard of the “dog trick”? Let your dog do all the talking for you.
Women love men who care for other living beings.
If you have a dog or can borrow one from your friend, it might be a great way to make her go out on a date with you.
When you have a dog, you will have something to talk about quite naturally.
You can meet her in a park and have a picnic with your furry friend in the middle who tries to steal your food.
It’s a natural icebreaker and creates a lasting impact that isn’t easy to forget.
Stay sober
Alcohol and dating don’t match.
The worst thing you can do is to go out on a date and be drunk since you will not make a great impression on her.
You will probably not behave the best when you’re drunk, either.
So, stay sober, save the drinks for a date in the future, and focus on her when you’re asking her out on a date.
Propose an irresistible date
One of the best ways to ask a girl out on a date is by giving her an offer she can’t refuse by proposing an irresistible date.
An irresistible date is a date that includes anything she likes.
To be able to propose one for her, you need to know what she likes and dislikes to be able to offer one for her.
If you want some tips, here are my best date ideas to give you some inspiration.
Plan ahead
One of the best things you can do is to plan your date before you ask her out.
Most dates only last a couple of hours, but if you want a full-day date night, you can check out this unique way of dating I came up with a couple of years ago. (= three dates in 1)
It will help you stand out from the other guys she’s dating.
Keep it in perspective.
Keep calm, and keep asking until you get an “yes”.
You don’t need to define what kind of relationship you’re in at this early stage since you are only in the beginning.
Asking her out on a date isn’t a big thing; it’s asking her a simple question.
That is what it is, and there’s nothing complicated about it. I know that you are excited and worried about the woman’s response.
My best advice is to keep calm and keep asking.
If you get a “no,” ask the next girl out on a date, and after a lot of “no”‘s, you will get a “yes” eventually.
Don’t take it personally when women are turning you down.
It’s all part of the process, and getting more no’s than yeses from gorgeous women is normal.
Volunteer together
Volunteering can be a good idea.
You will work in a group joined by a more significant cause, and the two of you will have to interact with other people.
You will get to know how she functions in a group of other people, and at the same time, she will realize how you are interacting with other humans and get a picture of what kind of guy you are.
It will also make you feel good, especially if it’s about a cause that both of you care deeply about.
Buy her a lottery ticket.
Do you want her to feel lucky, and I don’t mean to date you?
Instead of implying it, go and buy her a lottery ticket. It is a great gift and might make her believe your dinner.
Or a charm bracelet
There’s nothing more charming to a woman than getting a charm bracelet from a guy she likes, which makes a charm bracelet a perfect gift.
So, buy her one if you want her to think of you as a charming man.
She will be charmed, I’m sure. 🙂
Write her a letter
These days writing a letter makes it feel more personal than writing a text or sending her a DM.
So, take the time, write her a letter and ask her out on a date.
Or send her a text
One of the best ways to ask a girl out on a date is to send her a text message on her phone.
If you have her phone number, you’ll need to send her one of these texts ASAP.
At the End of the Day. -Make It Happen!
My last piece of advice for asking a girl out on a date is to take the courage and ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is you’ll get a “no.”
My Favorite Way to Ask a Girl Out
Now it is time to reveal my favorite way to ask a girl out, and it is, as you’ve probably guessed, to send her a text.
