In this article, you will get five awesome text templates for text flirting with a girl or woman that you like.
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Before I start this article, here are some other articles you might want to read after this one.
What Is Text Flirting?
You might call it pickup through texting, but I refer to it as text flirting, and in this short article, I will share my five best text templates that you can use to get a girl into sex mode within 5 minutes or less.
You should read the Complete Checklist on What to Text to a Girl if you want the entire checklist.
Text Flirting Tips
There is no idea to discuss more “heavy” topics such as your beliefs, your political or ethical views, or even what kind of relationship you want with her in your first text. Save those for the dates yet to come.
As I have stressed before, keeping things fun and easy-going and avoiding being boring when texting a hot girl is crucial.
I suggest you read my article What Not to Text a Girl and discover how to avoid them.
If you want to ask that hot girl out on a date, ask her simple questions like What’s up? Or What are you doing?
They are two of the worst texts since they are more likely to ruin your chances with that girl than get you out on a hot date.
You can read my article How to Text to a Girl You Like to get some great examples to use as conversation openers.
If you want to ask her out on a hot date successfully, you should add value to the conversation.
Don’t be afraid of emoticons; they marvel when you want to ask her out on a date. Use the HIT formula on her but don’t hit on her in an obvious way.
Tell her that she looks hot, sexy, or intelligent. Don’t forget to use ambiguous language to build some sexual tension between the two of you without being explicitly sexual, like I wonder if you like pussycats. I indeed like those cute little pussies.
What to Text a Girl
Above I have given you one example, and below you will get more text flirting tips.
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Avoid Activating Her “Shit”-Radar
It is pivotal to be yourself when you text hot girls because chicks have this “shit”-radar, a.k.a. the female intuition that constantly tries to make her emotions play mind games with her.
Honestly, you shouldn’t make yourself her” text buddy,” which I cover in my article What to Not Text Her.
Note that the italics are the actual text and the text written in plain style are different options. Use the option that fits best with your current situation.
Do Not Fall into The Text-Buddy Trap
If you recently met her, you should write, “Hey (her name), it was cool meeting you today/yesterday/whenever you met her…very random.” If it’s been a while since you last met, just write, “I saw this (something) that reminded me of you.”
An excellent example of not falling into the text-buddy trap is using ambiguous language and accusing her of thinking of you sexually.
Here are three excellent examples:
- Hey, cutie 🙂 I think we’d better stop texting since you are hitting on me! It’s evident to me! Either we stop texting, or you come over to me, and we start doing the naughty thing together. Your call!
- Hi, pumpkin! I just traveled on Route 66. Do you want to go route 69 with me when I’m back?
- I have a bottle (insert the name of her favorite wine, chocolate, or whatever she likes to eat). It misses you. Want me to bring it to you, or will you bring yourself to it?
The Power of The Hook
Now, the last example is a hook you can use when you find out about her interests. This is highly recommended that you use.
You use a hook to get the girl interested in you in a certain way.
You can use it on any occasion as an opener, although I don’t recommend it, or in a text conversation, you have with a hot girl, which I highly recommend.
4 Text Flirting Examples
I will give you two examples of hooks that you can use if she loves doing yoga or if she’s a Christian:
Example 1 for the yoga girl: We can do Namaste together when the sun goes up. We can start tonight. Will you join me?
Example 2: Let’s see if your yoga has done anything good! I have a couple of positions I would like to try on you that I found in this ancient Hindu book named Kama Sutra. Want to join me?
For the Christian girl (first example): You, Me. The remake of the Song of Songs (or: Song of Solomon). My place from 7 p.m. to early tomorrow. Are you in?
Second example: I was just reading the book of Genesis when it hit me. I want to know you as Adam knew Eve back then. Do you like it too?
As you probably understand you need to do some research about her interests.
If you want to learn about a topic you do not have any interest in, but she’s very into it, google it, and you will soon find information that you can use in your texts.
Make them fun and original instead of plain, simple and outright boring!
Another way is: I just read Cosmo. It turns out that girls that normally are nice in bed are very naughty in the bed. Is it right? Let’s test it!
More Text Flirting Examples
A version of it will be if you want to create a connection to her by mentioning a mutual friend or one of her friends that you met who told you the same thing.
Here are two examples of what I just discussed above:
Example 1: Hey! We just met at (insert the mutual friend’s name here) ‘s party yesterday, and I thought that you were the most intelligent person I spoke with the entire night.
Example 2: I’ve heard from (insert her friend’s name here) that you thought I was cute. It’s funny because I thought the same thing about you. Want to get out tonight?
As you can see from the examples above you can create a connection with a girl in two very different ways.
In the last example, you also ask her out on a date immediately.
These examples are very clear with their intentions but sometimes you need to be a bit mysterious since this is one thing that attracts women to a man.
Discover my best text flirting tips to a girl you like out on a date.
The Reason The Hook Is So Important
The hook is necessary to “catch” her attention so you can get her out on a date.
In the first example, I use her ego against her, and in the second one, I blame her friend who gave away her feelings and betrayed her trust.
The reason I share these secrets with you is that women are more emotionally driven in their decisions than we men and these examples are making the most out of this by using a loophole in the female brain.
In the newsletter, I share a video that makes the most out of this loophole.
I also share the ten best texts to get her out on a date.
These texts are compelling indeed; you can use them as pickup lines to get a girl for the night or a long-term relationship.
The decision is yours and only yours.
But the secret to getting a girl is to make the best use out of it.
Get her out of her comfort zone and into your bedroom tonight.
Discover the texts to make her want you now.
