Sending the first text message to a girl can be a considerable challenge to most guys.
You start writing a text message to her, and then you begin to think, and many questions will pop up inside your head. Questions like:
- What should you say to her in the text?
- Should you be sending her a funny text or a dirty text? What if she gets offended by it or has a weird sense of humor and doesn’t get it?
- What if she doesn’t reply to you? Does it mean anything?
I have been in this situation myself many times, so I understand how hard it is to create an excellent first text message to a girl, especially if you think she might become your next girlfriend.
But you don’t have to worry because I’ve got you covered.
After you have read this article, you will understand the importance of the first message and how you can get her to become your next girlfriend.
How to Text a Girl You Like
You can choose many things to text a girl, but the most important one is the first text message you ever send to a girl.
It will make it or break it for you.
It might sound brutal, but it is true.
The minute you get her phone number, the clock starts ticking.
The longer you wait to reach out to her and send her the first message, the lesser chance that she will respond to you.
If you want to craft the perfect first message that makes her eager to respond to you, you need to act quickly.
My solution is to use the HIT formula, which I discuss in further detail in the newsletter, where I also reveal how to get a girl to like you.
You might already have figured out what to text her in advance.
However, when you start typing, you hesitate and question whether you should send it now or wait.
What do most guys do? They wait!
Waiting kills the attraction and texting a girl is a real art.
You need to send her a witty and fun texting message, so she will start smiling and thinking about you.
It is “texting kryptonite” to a girl.
It is something the HIT formula can’t achieve unless you become a true master in it.
What to Text a Girl to Make Her Smile
When you can make her smile and think about you even when you’re not around, she will fall in love.
Before you can get her out on a date, you need to win her over, and only then will you ever stand a chance to get her out on a first date.
I have become a master of it, and I want to pass my knowledge on to you.
As you might already know, I haven’t always been good at it.
What caught me and made me a true master of this art was when I watched this video.
So how can you send her this kind of message?
It is not as hard as you think.
You need to learn to open the text conversation in a way that makes her laugh and feel good about herself.
I refer to these as “make her laugh text messages.”
What to Text a Girl
In a previous article, I gave given you a complete checklist of what you should text a girl.
Most things will do, as long as it is not a dull and straightforward “Hi!”
The first message has three distinct purposes that you need to learn and which I will discuss in other articles on this blog in further detail:
Your first text message to a girl you like should always be:
- Start the conversation and make her trust you.
- Make her interested, even intrigued in you.
- Make her smile, feel good about herself, and start thinking of you.
I have referred to this as the HIT formula and will continue to do this throughout this blog.
As I wrote in the beginning, you have to become a true master of it if this formula should work for you.
It will teach you how to ask her out on a date.
Because if you don’t take action tonight, chances are that you might have lost the opportunity to ever get her out on a date. Time is of the essence.
How to Text a Girl
If you want to learn how to text a girl, you should take the time and watch this video. It might prove to be a life-changer.
Don’t allow this opportunity to pass by you.
I will teach you what to text her and what not to text her in the email course you sign up for before you watch the video.
I hope you enjoy it.
