How to Get Her Attention Back
If you want to know how to get her attention, you will love what I am about to share with you right now. Let me just tell you ONE thing first:
It is natural to doubt yourself when you are texting a girl.
You might even start to second guess yourself sometimes if she doesn’t respond to your neatly crafted text messages.
However, there is a competitor for a girl’s attention that every single guy faces. If you want to get her out on a date, you need to meet your competitor and beat it.
It is not a person. It is an item.
I bet you know what I am writing about already, don’t you?
If you ever have watched commuters either while they are waiting for a bus, train, or a subway train to catch or you have watched them from within that vehicle yourself, you probably have seen it already.
I even experienced it on a family dinner once.
In the past, people were talking with one another when they commuted.
They were social with people they met every day on their way from and to work.
Today, however, it is a different story.
It seems to me that everybody and especially girls are on the phone continually doing a lot of different things.
They’re checking their friends latest updates on social media and responding to their posts. Some girls even do this on dates!
It is the biggest competitor you will ever face!
So the question you need to ask yourself is: How can I avoid it?
What to Do to Get Her Attention in a Text
By crafting smart, short, and intelligent messages when you are text chatting with her is one way to steer her attention to you.
Another way is to use one of the attention-grabbing techniques that I share with you in the next section of this article.
Not all of them are, however, suited for text chats.
Some work for video chats too, and all of them work on a first date.
Below you will learn some best practices that you can use both when you text a girl as well as when you are out on a date. These behaviours are what you always want to avoid at all cost.
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How to Get Her Attention on a Date
Here are my five best “Smart Attention Grabbers” to make sure that you get and maintain her full attention when you see each other in real life:
- Be friendly and polite. I am not just thinking about pulling out chairs and that kind of stuff that most girls, in fact, like but few will confess that they do. Talk about her interests and her dreams and aspirations. Fuel and boost her ego. She will return the favour and fuel your ego in return.
- Every girl loves to laugh. It is another “secret” that most guys actually know but seldom uses. Crack a joke or do something you know will make her laugh. In case you don’t remember to ask her. Laughing will make her feel more relaxed, self-confident and good about herself.
- Make her intrigued and curious about you. Do something unexpected that still feels good for you. Use my HIT-formula to make yourself more interesting to her.
- Tell her that she looks nice if she has done something particular, as her nails, show an interest in that. I know, it’s boring, but this is one of the things that make girls like you.
- Be yourself. Absolutely and 100% all time. Try to relax and think that you will have a pleasant time with a girl who is about your age. It’s a date, not a marriage proposal, not yet anyway.
DISCLAIMER: These are best practices and has helped a lot of guys to get a relationship with women, but they should not be seen as a guarantee since human behaviour is different in cultures and within sub-cultures in a country.
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