How to Text to A Girl

Below you will find what not to text a girl. To discover what to text a girl, you should read that article instead.

In the list, you will find ten common mistakes most men make when they text a girl, and in the latter part of this article, I will share some tips on how to text a girl and ask her out on a date.

1. You keep the texts long and tedious. To ask a girl out through texting, you must keep the readers short and excited.
2. You are too sexy instantly. Even if you are looking for casual sex, no woman will ever accept that unless she’s a prostitute.
3. Humour is good, but there is such a thing as getting too much good stuff. If you’re just constantly being the “fun” guy, she will not think of you as a severe person in her mind, and she may feel that you are outright silly, and you will lose the opportunity. You can learn more about the fun guy trap to avoid falling into it. Although not the entire time, making fun of yourself can bring a bit of “spice” to texting and role-plays.
4. You are waiting too long to respond to her. There is no golden rule about texting, and surely you can wait a while so you don’t portray yourself as being “too eager” in her eyes. Sometimes you should answer her straight away, and sometimes you should wait for about an hour. I suggest you fluctuate the time every time so that you will be unpredictable. This unpredictability is good since it builds tension and makes her stay on top of her game.
5. Come across as too needy. It turns out that just like men, women do not like broke guys. So, if you text her something like: I wish you were here so I could kiss you or I miss you so much… I hope we can be together all the time. That would be a major turn-off for her.
6. Send her too many texts. It is probably one of the most significant relationship wreckers or destroyers regarding texting. If you text her too much, she will get tired of you. If you text her too much, she’ll lose attraction. Try to keep the texting at a ratio of 1:1, which means that she sends you one text, and you send her one text too.
7. Don’t be yourself. Ouch! This is another significant and widespread mistake that men tend to make. Role-play is fun and can be a lot of fun if both agree on it, but when you text her, you need to be as close as you can to who you are because she will know if you fake it, her female intuition will tell her (or as I sometimes refer to it, her “shit-radar”).
8. Texting her: Let’s go out together. We’re a perfect match. It is a big no-no when you text a girl. Instead, disqualify yourself. This might seem like a bad idea, but it’s not. You would like her to chase you (Yup, that’s right!) and not be too needy.
9. Sexting instead of texting. No, unless you have been in bed with her, sexting is out of the question! I suggest you write something familiar like “How was your day?” or “What are you up to this weekend?” or something like that. If you want to do some sexting, you might like to send her one of these sexy texts. Keep it easygoing and natural, and ask her about some everyday stuff before you ask her. If you already know that she will be busy or have a concert, she will go to or even a family reunion, don’t ask her out on that weekend. That is another relationship wrecker (or breaker) and will not impress her. It shows her that you haven’t listened to or read what she has written.
10. Bad grammar or made-up abbreviations. It is a major turn-off for women. Why? Because it tells her that you do not care about her!

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